Abuja, Nigeria – Beyond the frontlines where soldiers defend the nation, their wives are increasingly being recognised as crucial players in building resilient families and communities. This recognition came into sharp focus at a personal development programme organised by the Defence and Police Officers’ Wives Association (DEPOWA) for members of the Defence Non-Commissioned Officers’ Wives Association (DENCOWA) in Abuja.
Speaking at the event, Mrs. Oghogho Musa, President of DEPOWA, described the wives of military personnel as “the silent backbone of national security,” stressing that their ability to balance parenting, entrepreneurship, and personal wellness has a direct impact on both the Armed Forces and society at large.
“If you empower the wife of a soldier, you empower the nation itself,” Musa declared, adding that true empowerment combines home management, financial independence, and self-care.
She noted that many barracks women either neglect their own well-being or remain disengaged from productive activities, a gap that needs to be bridged through training and collaboration.
From the Barracks to the Economy
The training, which featured sessions on well-being, small business growth, and intentional parenting, was designed to help participants embrace entrepreneurship and develop healthier lifestyles. Organisers believe that financially independent, mentally strong, and well-supported women raise stronger families—and, by extension, sustain the morale of soldiers on duty.
President of DENCOWA, Mrs. Nancy Ezia, commended the initiative, saying it has already sparked interest among women who previously doubted their ability to run businesses.
“This programme is a turning point. Some of our women will start businesses from here; others will expand what they already do. The ripple effect will be felt in our families and communities,” she said.
A Broader Vision
DEPOWA maintains that this model of empowering military spouses could serve as a blueprint for strengthening other vulnerable communities across Nigeria. By giving women the tools to manage their homes, earn income, and prioritise their health, the association believes the country gains not just stronger families but also a more secure and stable society.
